-2023, the Chinese Year of the Rabbit. Both MR and I were born under that sign so that means we both turned 60. How is that possible?
-In January, I threw MR a surprise birthday party that he didn’t want. I must have glossed over that fact while I was planning it. Anyway, it was at the Indian restaurant we went to for our 25th Anniversary. The food was good, the friends were great, most of the family came and he was surprised. I was a wreck.
-For his actual birthday, I splurged on some good seats for an Islanders game and put a birthday wish up on the Jumbotron. We were going to have his birthday at the UBS Arena, but the price was 5 times what I paid for his party.
-Speaking of the Islanders, Zombiegirl and her boyfriend went with us to one game, MR and I went to another game on Valentine’s Day, Zombiegirl, Utah and I went over the Spring break and MR and Zombiegirl went 3 or 4 times more together. Z-girl got very into the team- it’s nice she and her dad could share that passion.
-We moved Utah and Kevkev into the new house that they are renting from her friend. It’s big, it has a beautiful deck and I hope they will be very happy there and not have to move anytime soon.
-I went to Boy’s “Broadway Bound” open house gym. It was a showcase of the stuff 2nd graders do at gym set to Broadway showtunes. It was very cute and our boy can really jump!
-Our friends started a mobile pet spa so our dogs got their nails done and a bath. Archietheboy didn’t mind, but it was Pretzelthegirl’s first time and she was a little scared.
-Zombiegirl and I flew to Jacksonville to see Greta Van Fleet (we’re becoming groupies). We went to the Jacksonville Zoo that day, broke down in the rental car (fiasco) then went to see the band at the VyStar Veterans Memorial Arena that night. The next day we went to the Tree Hill Nature Center and flew home that afternoon.
-Zombiegirl celebrated her 24th birthday!
-The Youngers and I went to an Islanders game.
-We did two craft shows in April with stuff we made with the laser. It rained both times so the turnout wasn’t very good. I made a nice connection with another laser woman. We started the laser business- SKAMP (ours plus the dogs initials). We opened a website and now take credit cards!
-My friend Kat and I went shopping for diapers and wipes and paper goods for the local church paper pantry and we assisted the police department in their Prescription Drug Take Back day, all through the Lions Club.
-Staying with the Lions, I was nominated as 1st VP and Service Chair and Kat was nominated to the Board of Directors. They’re looking for new ideas- I hope I don’t let them down.
-I celebrated my 60th birthday by going to the gym early in the morning, getting my birthday Starbucks, doing a little shopping and getting a two hour massage in a salt cave. We celebrated at night with the family and ordered Chinese food. I made a flourless chocolate cake for the first (and probably last) time.
-Our chicken, Tina passed away. We don’t know why. She was such and awesome girl- always the first one out of the run, looking for worms with MR, always curious. She was one of the “brownies” and one of the youngest. She will be missed.
-We celebrated Easter at Utah’s new house. We missed the kids because they went to Disney with John’s family (again), but Dad came over and the food was good and we ate too much.
-We celebrated Dad’s 87th birthday at our house with the family. We had pizza and a chocolate cake with Mom’s crunchy white icing. I found her handwritten recipe in all the recipes Dad gave me and nailed it. (I am now sorry I asked for this frosting every year for my birthday because it was a royal pain in the ass to make.) Dad got lots of tools for gifts.
-Memorial Day weekend was wonderful! For my birthday, the girls gave me tickets for all of us to see Sweeney Todd on Broadway and to make candles at Lanterne Lab in Chinatown. We headed there first, then walked around the neighborhood waiting for them to set, searching for pork buns. We went in bakeries (sold out) and then waited on a long line (use cash!) for buns I haven’t had since my HPD days. The Youngers got weird flavored Doritos and Kit Kats and boba and Thai Iced Tea. By then our wonderful smelling candles were ready to be picked up and we headed uptown for dinner. After seeing the line for the Stardust Diner, we plan B’d it to Haswell Greens for nachos, burrata and bread, quesidillas, garlic fries and sweet potato fries. I got a Silver Screen cocktail (toffee washed bourbon, cherry coke and 3D bitters), because Haswell’s is a great place for cocktails. Sweeney Todd was absolutely fantastic! Josh Groban, Annaleigh Ashford (Kinkyboots) and Gaten Matarazzo were wonderful!
-We got our living room, dining room and hallway floors redone. They’re a beautiful scratch-resistant, waterproof luxury vinyl plank. The contractors were nice but sub-par and the Tile Shop was aggravating to work with but eventually they got done and I’m over the moon happy with the results, mostly. I’m not crazy how they handled the uneven floor due to settling but I can live with it. The sub-par contractors also fixed the hole in the upstairs hallway where we had a leak.
-And because we got new flooring, we tossed my great-grandmother’s china cabinet and buffets that we were using in the kitchen as an appliance stand and as a TV stand in the living room. It broke my heart but I did try to rehome them. No one wants the dark, bulky furniture any more. Now we have two couches and a mid-century modern TV console and a new piece in the kitchen. I downsized a lot of crap and the rest fits nicely into what we got. A new color paint in the dining room really brightened everything up and the plant stands are perfect for my plants.
-I went to Boy’s end of year fun-day at their local park. I went last year so he asked me to go with them this year. Another child threw a water balloon right in his face- several hundred napkins later to staunch his bloody nose (and absolutely NO ONE asking if he was alright)- Boy went back to playing like a trooper.
-We celebrated Father’s day with a BBQ in the back yard and a driveway game of Cornhole. In fact a lot of our Friday Family Fun Nights ended in a game of Cornhole. MR, Zombiegirl and Boy dominate.
-Summer was fun! MR, Zombiegirl and I went to a Long Island Ducks game, we watched fireworks on the beach with Beena and her many mom friends and kids, we spent a lot of time soaking up the sun at the Beach house and we went to Utah’s house for their first BBQ (the week before we did a lot of gardening in their backyard and built a new fence and gate for their garden). MR and I made the rounds of breweries out East and Ei and I went to the free neighborhood concert featuring a Bangles cover band.
-In August, Zombiegirl and I went to LA for a week. I loved our hotel- The Tommy. We hung out at the rooftop pool every day, played tourist on Hollywood Blvd looking at the stars on the sidewalk, went to museums and Universal (studio tour and amusement park), rented bikes and rode the beach bike trail from Santa Monica to Ventura and did everything she saw on TikTok (Erewhon for expensive smoothies, Instagram photo shoots, etc). We ate well and saw one B-list actor. We did dip our feet in the Pacific Ocean for all of ten seconds.
-For Utah’s birthday we did a sports-themed scavenger hunt with all her friends. I was on the dream team of Zombiegirl, Beena, John and the kids. Of course we won! Mainly because we spotted another team (and took pics) in Dicks Sporting Goods!
-Utah and Kevkev gave me my first grand-pup! Welcome to the family, Stanley! Stanley is a Bichon Frise/Poodle mix so Utah won’t be sneezing when he licks her face.
-The grandkids slept over at the beach house- we beached the first day and went to the aquarium the next day. We had to stop and feed the goats at the lavender farm because Girl is obsessed with goats, lol! I love those kids and I’d take them anywhere.
-Zombiegirl and I saw Greta Van Fleet again- this time close to home- at Madison Square Garden! I will never get tired of this.
-For my 60th birthday, MR booked a trip for me to Bermuda. We stayed at the Cambridge Resort and Spa and took the bus everywhere- into Hamilton, Port Royal, the lighthouse and the Crystal Caves. It was so beautiful and we had such a good time. It was an unforgettable trip and I want to go back!
-For Halloween the kids were a zombie basketball player and a goat. Guess which one was which!
-We started watching KC’s Cal on Tuesdays. It takes a soccer village to help out!
-Girl and I and several of the FP Lions went to NHP Lions Supermarket Bingo. Everyone said how beautiful my granddaughter is (I know) and how well behaved she is (I know). We didn’t win any bingo games but she one two baskets in the raffle!
-Speaking of the Lions, we trained for vision screening, we took back drugs from the community, we donated school supplies to the schools and we donate to the food pantry every month (specific things everyone brings to the meetings).
-Zombiegirl and I went to an Islanders game because MR had Covid. They’ve been to several games so far this year.
-We celebrated Beena’s 35th birthday at their house- how is it possible I have a 35 year old?
-Byso, Kat, MR, Zombiegirl and I saw The Shark Is Broken on Broadway. If you’re a Jaws fan, you would have loved this play. Z-girl was cute- she didn’t realize Broadway wasn’t all musicals! Alex Brightman (Beetlejuice) is my new crush, lol.
-Utah, Zombiegirl, KevKev and I went to see Spamalot on Broadway. First we went to Peachy Keen for brunch and I was accused of getting drunk on the (very strong) mimosas. Burrata and biria set us off on a laughing fit (again, not drunk). The play was incredible- just as good as when we saw it 16 years ago!
-During my annual physical, my doctor recommended an anti-inflammatory and sumatriptan for my migraines. I’ve taken them when I’ve woken up with a migraine and with the addition of a little more sleep, the migraine is gone in about 20 minutes. I haven’t taken them when I get an aura (the telltale start of my migraine), but I’m hopeful they’ll work miracles for those times as well.
-Zombiegirl and I did the same craft sales we did in the Spring. The first one was dismal- we won’t be doing that one again. The second one was a two-day event- we did really well on Saturday and okay on Sunday.
-After the Saturday craft sale, we went to Beena’s for Girl’s family birthday party. It was a puppy party and we gave her a nightstand, lamp and chair for her room. I can’t believe she’s seven!
-I left Zombiegirl at above-mentioned craft sale on Sunday to help Beena with Girl’s 7th kid birthday party. We painted door hangers that I lasered for 11 kids- rainbows for the girls and video games for the boys. It was a lot of fun, her friends are so funny! Some of the kids really did a nice job and some (looking at you Ryder) were disastrous. Landon thought I was cool (I helped him paint his many pieces) and Emily’s was a beautiful sunset color. Girl was adorable as usual and gave me a hug to thank me when I left to go back to the craft sale. Beena said we made a great team. ❤
-That same weekend was opening weekend so MR went up to the property. He saw a coyote, but nothing else.
-The whole week from before the craft sale to right after Thanksgiving, I suffered from a bad head cold. Lost my sense of taste and smell, bad cough and general exhaustion. The Covid test was negative (MR’s was positive from a few weeks prior). A few days after Thanksgiving I started feeling better, but that cough lingered.
-Six FP Lions and myself baked treats for the NHP Ronald McDonald house. We made <hot mess> Turkey cupcakes (Pinterest fail), Brookies (brownie cookies) and Pumpkin Spice Chex mix. It was the first time cooking for some of these ladies and they already want to do it again in the Spring. We also donated 18 Warmies- lion stuffies that you can heat in the microwave and they smell like lavender.
-Thanksgiving was really nice with the whole family. MR spatchcocked the turkey and Utah brought baked ziti. Beena and Girl made brownies and brought rolls and Z-girl bought the pies. Note to self: have real milk, don’t have pies and set heavy flatware at the end of the table.
-In March I started the 52 Week Book Club Challenge and finished it in early November. The goal is to read one book a week using their prompts, which are a lot of fun. With the help from Utah and Beena and the Facebook group, I found a lot of new authors I like as well as a few new genres I can get behind. I’m doing the 2024 Challenge and already have a few books picked out.
-Started doing 10 Daily Things. 1) Go through pictures, delete 20 2) Daily games (Sudoku, Wordle, etc.) 3) Add one thing to website 4) Get rid of two things 5) Do something that’s been hanging around 6) Put one thing on Etsy or Ebay 7) Unfollow five people or accounts on Social Media 8) Delete 10 emails in old account 9) Deal with 10 emails in old account (save pictures, write recipes, etc.) 10) Blog. For the holiday season I added two more: Go through one Christmas box until done and Wrap any gifts. I hold myself accountable and check things off as I do them throughout the day. It doesn’t take long- putting shit on eBay takes all of 5 minutes. As a result I’ve made a few sales, thrown out or donated a lot and am happier on SM because I see content I want to see.
-The last craft fair (by myself- Z-girl had to work) was profitable. I almost didn’t make it because I threw my back out the night before at Friday Family Fun night. It was a close decision whether or not I wanted to throw the cost of the table away, but I went. The coordinator was really nice but traffic was slow. We sold mostly to other vendors, lol.
-We celebrated the Lions Holiday Dinner at Villa D’Este. The District Governor from Bermuda was able to make it as well as Elliot K from the Lions Eye Bank. MR made a 92-year old friend (who sat on his lap- we have pictures) and we collected toys for Tricia’s Kids and the food was good and we had a good time talking to normal folks. Unfortunately, MR’s “girlfriend” developed Covid right after that. We wish her a speedy recovery!
-The 103848th Annual Cookie Exchange was held at Utah’s house this year. I invited my Lion friends (old and new) and the cookies were good and the games were fun and the wine was cold. I told the daughters they have my permission to slap me if I suggest having a cookie party next year. Stick a fork in us, we are done. I think next year we’ll just take a weekend and bake our own cookies.
-Since Boy is now in 3rd grade, clubs and before/after school activities are available. He signed up for chorus and leadership club and computer club. His chorus (and band and orchestra) had their Holiday Concert and it was surprisingly good for 3rd and 4th graders who just started learning their instruments and singing two months ago. I was asked to represent and my favorite song was a mashup of Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree and Rock Around The Clock.
-Zombiegirl and Kenneth went on a 7-day Oasis of the Sea cruise two weeks before Christmas. It was her first time cruising. MR kept telling her not to get off the boat in Labadee, Haiti, but they loved that beach the best.
-Zombiegirl filled a ferret-size hole in her heart (her words) and found a baby ferret in the color she wanted…in Ohio. She and MR flew in to Indianapolis three days before Christmas, rented a car and drove to a hotel near Cincinnati. The next day they picked up the teeny baby and drove 11 hours home with her cuddled in Z-girl’s sweatshirt. My Grand-ferret’s name is Chai and she hates my feet and bites my face, but she’s stinking adorable and a bundle of energy. I didn’t know ferrets eat meat so we shopped for organs and bone meat and spent a few hours breaking it down into daily baggies for her am and pm feeding. We’re taking care of her while Zombiegirl and Kenneth leave for NYE weekend for Sam and Brian’s wedding. I’m wearing steel-toed shoes, lol.
-Christmas was very nice- we had the whole family here for an earlyish dinner, which we catered from Stew Leonard’s. It was nice not having to worry about cooking- I just did the appetizers and popped the food into the oven. I loved all my presents- end tables and an Anders Lee Islanders jersey and a crock pot and Fiestaware and a journal for the 2024 52 Week book club. The kids (and Utah) loved the dino chicken nuggets I made for them (I had to drive way out east to pick up the material). Best of all, we decided to do a Secret Santa next year with the adults to lessen the amount of spending and gifts, because it really does get crazy.
-Zombiegirl and I went into the city on my last day of vacation for lunch in the Bryant Park Winter Wonderland. We ate Malaysian chicken satay skewers from Padi D’NYC and Korean corn dogs from Lazy Dog and popcorn chicken bao from Bao Kaya. It was crowded but festive and it was nice to just zip in to the city for lunch and walk around eating from different vendors.
-I took off work between Christmas and New Year’s, and didn’t really do anything except watch The Office. I did finish the Halloween scrap book, hemmed Z-girl’s bridesmaid dress and worked on the Christmas scrap book that’s been laying on the floor of the spare bedroom for years. I mainly organized, purged and cleaned during the week, so it was not only restful but mindfully productive.
-Lastly, we spent New Year’s Eve at Beena’s house with the family, speed playing through the 13 games Utah brought (we only got to six or seven, but we found some new favorites), eating many, many appetizers and trying to stay awake until midnight.
It was a very good year! Bring on 2024!