The tradition of decorating gingerbread houses at Christmastime began the year our dear dog, Lola, ate the house Zombiegirl decorated at Riesterer’s Bakery on a Girl Scout trip. It was left on the dining room table for everyone to look at, then, when our backs were turned, Lola jumped up on the table and finished it off. Licked the plate clean- not a crumb left.
Zombiegirl was so upset my Mom bought a gingerbread house kit and invited Z-girl over to decorate it. They had such a good time, they made it an annual event. Just the two of them. It was the only thing they ever did together.
Last year was bittersweet. Mom asked me to help them, since her tumor had grown so much and was, well, leaking. Her lips were also numb and swollen so she couldn’t talk much at that point. She didn’t want Z-girl to see her like that, so she wrapped a towel around her neck, made the frosting then let us decorate the little houses- there were three in that kit. We brought them home as usual and put them on top of the wall unit. Hey, we learn quickly.
I didn’t even think about the gingerbread decorating thing this year. It was Beena’s idea. She said she and Zombiegirl would decorate the house this year if I picked up a kit.
My eldest is turning out so thoughtful.
So we were in Costco the other night and the first thing we see when we walked in were pallets upon pallets of gingerbread house kits. I didn’t care how much it was, I was getting it. (It was only $19.95!) Last night, in the middle of my migraine, we started putting together the house.
After a few minutes, it was apparent I wasn’t needed.
Beena and Z-girl put the house and tree together and decorated it with icing, gumdrops, jellybeans and jaw breakers. This sweet tradition has been passed down from grandmother to granddaughter, skipping me altogether. But I am SO alright with that- I love when my daughters do things together. I love listening from the oher room their banter and minor arguments. These two have a new tradition together- like it or not. I can picture 10 to 15 years from now those two getting together with their kids at a big kitchen table (maybe grandma’s?) putting together a bunch of gingerbread houses. Remembering the joy and the tears of past house decorating. And wondering if there’s enough candy to finish the job this year.
Thanks, dear Lola. Your insatiable appetite started a sweet, sweet tradition for our family.
Now stop drinking from the toilet.